were you ever mad at someone you truly care then you block them in your life for a reason but everyday you have this urge to accept them back again? not because you want to talk to them but because you wanna check on them, know theyre okay, know theyre fine and know they’re doing well?
Consistency is a love language. Expressing boundaries with sensitivity is a love language. Honoring a person’s need for alone time is a love language. Acknowledging the risk it took someone to share their vulnerability is a love language. Tolerating and validating a different perspective is a love language. Learning to manage our projections and expectations is a love language.
Instead of wasting your time and energy futilely obsessing over that which you cannot control/change, invest that in yourself/self-improvement instead. Focus on what is within your control, and everything else will become so much more manageable and less overwhelming. Don’t lose your personal power to that which drains it when you can instead channel it into that which fuels it.
